Saturday, April 5, 2014

Cyber Bullying

To all those being cyber bullied,
I understand there is an issue, and there are people out here for you. Everyday, there are people just like you that face the same problems. The outcome will be determined solely on how you react to it. When facing the problem, tell an adult or a trusted parental figure. It is always important when dealing with cyber bullies to stand up for yourself. You never want to go to the extremes and give it right back to the cyber bully. Always deal with it in a mature matter. You can contact the adult, and they will deal with it. The post can be taken down, and the cyber bully will face the consequences. Know that cyber bullying is a serious offense, and the cyber bully will be not be dealt with lightly. 
Those who are being cyber bullied should remain calm. Know that the bully is just someone that has to much times on their hand. It is said that bullies on are the way that they are because they are redirecting their anger. You are not alone, but the only way to end the cyber bullying is to communicate. There are ways to know when someone is being cyber bullied, but not many people know them. The only way to get help, is to seek it. There will always be the bullies and the bullied, but who says you have to take it. I'm not saying go out and bully a person, I am saying that if you end the bullying, you will feel better and more confident about yourself. 
You may be going through a tough time in your life, but there is a way to end the pain. Seek help and find a way to get out of the difficult situation. Know that the bully is saying lies, and there is nothing wrong with you. These bullies are seeking attention, and not giving attention them is the best way to go. There are many just like you, you are not alone. This is a problem most people will face in their lifetime, and it is a growing problem. If you do not want to get cyber bullied, stay off certain networks such as askfm and kik. These can be very harmful, and can be sent anonymously. Anonymous sending is a big problem, and to not get cyber bullied, you have to avoid it too. I am not saying that you should live you're life in fear, but you need to minimize the chances. There is nothing good that can come out of cyber bullying, and being cautious about your whereabouts on social networks is important. You may not realize that you are setting yourself up for being bullied, but you may be. The two social networks listed above are common cites that cyber bullies tend to move towards, and should be avoided. 
In conclusion, know that there is always someone there for you, and that you are not alone . The only way to end it, is to face it. Always be smart about what you do on social networks, and never write anything you would not want your mother to see.

5 comments:

  1. I really liked how you made this post into trying to help the victims of being cyber bullied. If someone who was going through a tough time read this, I'm sure it would've helped

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  2. This is a really good post, it would help someone who was being cyber bullied. It's cool how you explain how to tell if someone is being cyber bullied.

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  3. I like how you said that anonymous sending is a big problem. But, with the technology we have now, we can track the IP addresses and locate who's doing the bullying.

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  4. This is some really good advice for someone who is going through cyber bullying. Technology allows us to be able to track anyone, no matter what there name is online.

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  5. Dealing with the cyberbulling responsibly and learning how to control your emotions is key in overcoming the cyberbully challenges. Although, you may want to fire right back at the mean comments, its important to act maturely and do what is right-contact someone of higher authority.

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